Scars of war heal for teen
By Abbott Koloff, Daily Record \
March 29, 2003
In a land where his father has trouble finding work, and
where he says gunfire is routine, Deya Ali imagined growing up
to become an actor or a poet. His favorite sport was soccer. He
liked to watch American movies, like "Rambo," on video, but said
his friends talked about boycotting American products." Like
Pepsi," Ali said.
He comes from the Israeli-occupied West Bank. His father
often talked about the town where his family had come from,
inside of what is now Israel. Before the violence of the past
two years, his father worked construction jobs for an Israeli
company. Now, Deya said, his father works as a day laborer in
Arab-owned stores.
Deya, 15, said he and two friends were walking home from
school in Nablus, a Palestinian town, early last year when they
were attacked. He said several Israeli settlers, walking in the
other direction, started shooting at them. One bullet hit him in
the side. He woke up in an Israeli helicopter with an Israeli
soldier holding his hand, telling him he would be all right.
"Every day in my neighborhood there is shooting bullets and
rockets," Deya said recently through a translator. "I wake up
dreaming about shooting and rockets."
Now he wakes up in a Union County hospital, where he's
undergoing intense physical therapy so that one day he might
walk again. He had surgery last month, performed at another New
Jersey hospital, to reattach his pancreas to his digestive
system, so his body would be able to break down nutrients.
Aref Assaf, a Denville resident, helped bring Deya to the
United States last month after someone familiar with the case
called the Palestine Children's Relief Fund, an international
nonprofit organization.
A year after being shot, Deya had been losing weight, going
from 168 to 71 pounds, and doctors at a Jordanian hospital told
his family to take him home; there was nothing more they could
do.
"He was going to die," said Assaf, who works with the relief
fund and has been acting as Deya's guardian in the United
States. Assaf also is an official with the American-Arab
Anti-Discrimination Committee and has been outspoken on
Palestinian issues.
Deya said last week that he feels stronger after the surgery,
performed at the Jersey Shore Medical Center in Neptune. Back up
to 125 pounds, he started physical therapy last week at
Specialized Children's Hospital in Mountainside, where doctors
said he asks for extra sessions. Nerve tissue in his spinal cord
was damaged by lack of blood flow when he was shot, doctors
said, but they expect him to be able to walk with the help of a
cane.
"He is a very determined young man," said Dr. Michelle
Fantasia, a pediatric physiatrist. "He will have difficulty
walking, but he will walk."
Deya is one of 300 children sponsored by the Palestine
Children's Relief Fund over the past decade, Assaf said.
Financial records show the relief fund received $884,798 in
donations in 2001 and paid more than $521,554 to help
Palestinian children receive medical care. Assaf said much of
the care that Deya has been receiving in the United States has
been given free of charge - including surgery performed by Dr.
Saad Saad, who was not available to comment late last week.
While the relief fund's mission is purely humanitarian, Assaf
said, its funding, largely donations from Arab-Americans, has
fallen victim to the political atmosphere. Annual donations have
dropped by more than 10 percent since the Sept. 11 terrorist
attacks, he said, because people fear that contributions to a
Middle Eastern charity will be scrutinized by the government.
Deya, who now spends much of his spare time using computers,
said he's not interested in politics. Assaf asked him if he
hates Jews. Deya shook his head and said "no" in Arabic. But
while he says he's not political, Deya talks about one day
having a country to call his own. He draws a picture of a
Palestinian flag on a computer. Asked about his perceptions of
the United States, he thinks for a moment before talking about
conflicting feelings.
"The bullet that went into me was made in America," he said.
Deya also said that he wants to visit the Statue of Liberty
because it represents freedom. He said he is not free to come
and go as he pleases on the West Bank.
"Maybe I can touch the Statue of Liberty, smell it, and take
a piece home with me," Deya said.
He has not seen much of America, except the insides of
hospitals and ambulances, since he arrived last month. Assaf
said he planned to take Deya out this weekend, to have dinner at
an Arabic restaurant in Paterson.
Deya has watched American television and said some images
disturbed him. He said it appeared that Arabs are the butt of
jokes, although he does not understand what is being said.
He also said he is grateful for the help he has received in
the United States, writing a letter, in Arabic, to thank doctors
and nurses who have cared for him.
"I only hope to return your good deeds by being able to do
the same unto other helpless children - the many whose luck was
not as good as mine," Deya wrote.
"I shall forever declare that there is goodness in this
world, and that there remain good people who love to help
others. I shall forever say that if more good people join hands,
there will be peace amongst humankind."
He said there has not been much peace at home. As he walked
home from school in Nablus on Jan. 31, 2002, he said an Israeli
settler, a heavyset man, shot him and then taunted him. Deya
said the settler threatened to shoot him again, but he doesn't
remember clearly what happened next. He remembers seeing Israeli
soldiers.
"That's when I fainted," he said.
Then he was on an Israeli helicopter, where he said an
Israeli soldier cursed both Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon
and Palestinian leader Yasser Arafat. "This is a waste that we
have to fight and kill one another," the soldier said, according
to Deya.
An official with the Israel Defense Forces said last week
that he had only sketchy information about what happened that
day. He said a Palestinian who suffered a gunshot wound was
flown by military helicopter to an Israeli hospital and that the
incident took place in a village south of Nablus. The official
said a full report was not available last week.
Deya said he received good care at Chaim Sheba Medical Center
in Tel Aviv, Israel's largest hospital, where much of the damage
caused by the bullet was repaired. But after 40 days of
treatment, he said he was told he had to leave because he had no
insurance and no way to pay his bills.
Chaim Sheba officials said their policy calls for patients
not to be released until treatment is completed, regardless of
ability to pay. Rachel Schachar, a hospital spokeswoman, said
Chaim Sheba treats more than 1,000 Palestinian patients each
year, many receiving free medical care, including cardiac
surgery.
It is not clear what kind of treatment Deya then received,
first at a Palestinian hospital and then at one in Jordan.
Doctors said they are still reviewing the medical records.
Doctors at Jersey Shore Medical Center removed a fragment
from Deya's pancreas and gave it to him as a keepsake. He
certainly does not appear to be squeamish.
"He has no problem looking at pictures of his surgery," Assaf
said.
Deya said he never gave up hope that he would walk again, and
he expects to lead a normal life. In his letter to doctors and
nurses, he said he knows he has a long recovery ahead of him. He
signed it this way: "A hopeful Palestinian boy."
Abbott Koloff can be reached at
akoloff@gannett.com or
(973) 989-0652.
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